Sunday, September 20, 2015

GCR - Filling Our Homes with Light and Truth

So it's Sunday evening and I'm looking at my upcoming RS lesson and wanted to share some thoughts I had as I was preparing it.


My thoughts are based on the talk "Filling Our Homes with Light and Truth" given by Sister Cheryl A. Esplin of the Primary General Presidency in the April 2015 Women’s Session of General Conference.

I still remember Sister Esplin’s talk because it was the first of the night and right off the start she had Monkey’s and my attention with her visual of the empty and full soda cans. How full was my can? If I was honest with myself, more often than not I felt like the can that was being crushed into uselessness. It made me stop and think about what I was doing to help fill my home with light and truth and why it was so important.

To first understand what I wanted and how I could improve I wanted to better understand the ideas of light and truth and how these would apply to myself and my home.

I’m still a Florida girl at heart – I love sunshine, it brightens my day and feels like a great heavenly hug. It makes things grow and allows life on our planet to exist. I may be a little prejudiced but in my opinion light is the source of a beautiful and happy life. In the scriptures sometimes Christ is referred to as “the light” we also have the idea of the “light of Christ” according to the Bible Dictionary the light of Christ is enlightenment, knowledge, and an uplifting, ennobling, persevering influence that comes upon mankind because of Jesus Christ.

So now to truth - one of the things that sets apart the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is that we believe that we have been blessed with the fullness of Gospel Truth. I love the scripture from John 8:32 - “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” To me this means that through the Gift of the Holy Ghost and the blessings of the restored gospel we are given the truths we need to remain free and unhindered by the bondage of sin.

So how does this apply to ourselves, our homes, and our families? After thinking about them and studying them it seemed to me a given that these would be essential elements in finding and living a life of happiness. Some of the specific blessings of light and truth that Sister Esplin talked about are that we will be able to have the inner strength to resist outside forces and pressures, we will more fully have the blessings of the Holy Ghost with us, our spiritual knowledge will increase, we will know that our prayers are answered, and we will have stronger testimonies that help us and can have a lasting impact for good on our family members and those we meet. Sounds pretty ideal to me!

She also warned of some of the consequences of neglecting to fill our lives and homes with light and truth. She said that we will be weakened as Satan puts pressure on us to compromise and conform to things that are not in keeping with Christ’s teachings and we may find ourselves collapsing. If are not actively seeking to fill ourselves with light and truth Satan will try and fill us with isolation, loneliness, confusion, doubt, and fear. Ultimately we may find ourselves without testimonies sufficient to sustain ourselves or the following generations that would look to us for support and guidance as they seek out their testimonies.

So I knew what I wanted and why I wanted it but now I needed to figure out how to make it happen. What were some of the things I could do to improve? Thankfully Sister Esplin shared some ideas of how we can ensure that we are strengthened and full. She counseled us to seek out inspiring music, pray, study the scriptures, study the words of the living prophets, learn from our family members, fulfill our responsibilities as part of our family, take time to privately renew ourselves, continually seek after truth, live the truth we know, share and defend truth, and probably most of all be patient but persistent as we remember that it takes time and effort.

I think as women, we have been blessed with a great power in our families to help create a home that is full of light and truth that can bless ourselves and our families and untold numbers of others. It begins with us though, we have been blessed with the truth and light of the Gospel, we have been blessed with families, homes, friends, and neighbors. With all those blessings comes the responsibility to do what we can to help serve and love each other as Christ would do. We cannot allow ourselves to become empty and depleted and weakened. We must focus on the things that matter most and move forward with faith. For me it's still very much a work in progress but it's comforting to know that this is something Heavenly Father wants for each of us and I'm not alone in my efforts. Also, since this was a talk given to all the women of the church I'm guessing it's not just me that's still trying to figure it all out. That's pretty comforting too. Hopefully we can all work together as women and sisters and support each other and help to fill each other up when we do start to feel weak and empty! 

Friday, June 19, 2015

Because sometimes Life Happens

So if anyone has actually been trying to follow along (are you out there? I'd love to hear from you!) Yes, I stopped mid 30 day gratitude quest. No, I'm not sure I'll pick it back up quite yet. As usual, I'm trying to decide just what to do with the blog and how to organize my time a little better so that when life happens and my time gets thin I don't have to stress about a blog because family and friends always come first. So if you're reading this and you're interested in hearing some more of my random thoughts on life, love, marriage, parenting, politics, self-reliance, friendships, or the gospel of Christ. Please take a minute and comment or send me an e-mail!

Thursday, June 11, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 14


Today I wanted to share a little of my gratitude for art. Have you ever noticed that all little children are artists? They love to draw and create beautiful things. Sadly this can become stifled as they get a little older and realize that their pictures don't quite match up with what they were trying to draw or the great masterpieces hanging in galleries. I believe though that the craving to create beauty never really goes away. Viewing and creating beautiful art speaks to our souls. We look at the Mona Lisa and as we view her beauty we also have hundreds of questions fill our minds. Who was she? What was she thinking? Why did DaVinci paint her? What was he thinking as he made each little brush stroke or mixing his paints? Good art leaves us with thoughts that enlarge and expand our mind and appreciate just how much beauty there is all around us. An idea from A Beautiful Mind has always stuck with me that God must have been a painter because he have us so many colors. The world to me is a beautiful work of art.

Today's challenge:
1. Continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. Think about what art has spoken to your soul and think about what it was about it that moved you.
3. Think about the last time that you created a work of art, record your gratitude for the talent that allowed you to create something even if it wasn't perfect.
4. Find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 13



Today I wanted to talk about another of my favorite things that I am grateful for - books! As far back as I can remember I have loved books. Books make me laugh, they make me cry, they help me de-stress, they teach me things and open my mind and fill it up with all sorts of amazing knowledge and imaginations. I think a lot of who I am is thanks to what I've felt and learned through reading good books. There's just something magical about opening a book - new or old and just holding it.

Today's challenge:
1. Continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. Take 15 minutes to get lost in a book.
3. Write down a list of at least the top 10 books that you've been thankful for in your life and if you want a bonus include why you're thankful for them. 
4. Find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.

Monday, June 8, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 12


someone cue the crickets chirping....

Maybe it hasn't been that bad but I did kind of halt mid go over the weekend with the 30 day challenge.What can I say, it was a busy weekend with lots of family stuff and I hadn't thought ahead to prep so I'll just have to say that in addition to everything else I'm grateful for pauses that sometimes just have to happen.

Today I wanted to focus on how thankful I am for music. Some of my earliest memories are of seeing my grandmother and great-grandmother singing, directing, and playing instruments with their band of pink ladies from the hospital they volunteered at. A little bit older and I remember an elementary school music teacher who changed lives through her yearly full school musical production. About the same time as that I remember lots of nights and competitions where I would go with my mom to hear her sing with the Sweet Adaline choir. In middle school it seemed almost automatic that I joined the band and chorus and continued on through high school.

So anyways, yes, I love music. I don't think I had ever really thought about why though until I became a mom and actually probably only since Bear was born. I finally realized that music really speaks to us sometimes in a way that words just can't. Putting on some music can change the whole tone of our home within a matter of seconds. If you think I'm exaggerating just try it. I promise that it works and not just on the kids but on us too. There is power in good music and I am so thankful for it I couldn't even begin to start.

Today's challenge:
1. Continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. Try putting on some music and paying attention to how it makes you feel.
3. Write down your feelings of gratitude for how music has blessed your life.
4. Find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.

Friday, June 5, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 11


Today I wanted to remember to be grateful for memories. Memories are our way of looking back at life and seeing how blessed we have been. Especially when you become a parent and start looking back at your childhood as it compares to what your children are going through there is something magical in a memory. I love getting out the old pictures from when the kids were little or when I was little and remembering what was happening and going on in our lives. It makes me even that much more thankful for where I am now.

Today's challenge:
1. Continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. Take some time to just remember today - look through pictures or scrapbooks or get out a family movie.
3. Write down your feelings of gratitude now as you look back on your past.
4. Find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.


Thursday, June 4, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living- Day 10


For today's challenge I wanted to think a bit about technology and what a blessing it is. From turning on a light switch to going for a drive or being able to read this on the Internet is a huge blessing. Most of us will remember that it wasn't too long ago when just having a computer in your home was a huge deal. Now even my two year old knows how to take pictures with an I-Pad. I love being able to find information and inspiration on the internet but I'm also most grateful for being able to stay in touch with our family that are scattered across the US and Canada.

Today's challenge:
1. Continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. As you go through your day try to be more aware of all the times you use technology.
3. Write down a blessing that has come from technology.
4. Find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 9


For today's challenge I wanted to think about how grateful I am for the things I've learned. Learning can come in so many ways and it is so important to our happiness. I just can't even begin to describe how thankful I am for the things that I've learned and realizing that I can still learn new things every day. I love looking back at my journals and seeing how much I've changed over time through the things that I've learned.

Today's challenge:
1. Continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. Make an effort to learn something new today. It doesn't have to be big - just something recognizable as new.
3. Write down a blessing that has come from being willing to learn something new.
4. Find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 8


It's Day 8 of our challenge! Today I wanted to share some gratitude for the things that make us different. Sometimes we can get stuck in a rut trying to be like someone else - if only I was ... like them,  or if only I had ... like them. I caught myself doing this one day and realized suddenly how silly I was being. Who decided what they had was better than what I had? God could care less about or physical attributes, or temporal belongings and wealth. I don't even think He cares that much about how smart or talented we are. The only thing that matters to Him is how we're using whatever gifts He has blessed us with to follow Him and improve ourselves through His goodness. So instead of worrying about what makes us different let's celebrate the unique blessings that make up who we are!

Today's challenge:
1. continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. if you start to compare yourself to others silence those thoughts and remember "I am who God made me to  be and as long as I have faith to follow Him I have everything I need."
3. write down a specific way that you've been blessed by your differences.
4. find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.

Monday, June 1, 2015

30 Days of Grateful Living - Day 7

Wowee! I can't believe it's been a week already. So far the changes I've seen in myself have been small but thinking more actively about things I'm grateful for has definitely been helping me see things in a different way that keeps me happier and calmer.

Today's challenge is to be thankful for the good people around you that step in and help out. It can be extended family, friends, the people at church, the people in the store, teachers, leaders, co-workers. It's actually kind of amazing to think about all the people that bless our lives each and every day.

Today's challenge:
1. continue to write down how you are grateful for your family and God (it's been a few days so try not to repeat anything!)
2. write down a list of people that have been a blessing to you
3. write down a specific way that you've been blessed by someone outside your extended family today.
4. find a way to act on your gratitude and think about how it makes you feel.